A child or toddler throwing a tantrum in public can be a very embarrassing situation. However, you have a number of options so you can manage your little one’s behavior so that he never does it again. Also, be aware if frequent tantrums may be indicative of deeper psychological problems. Here are some guidelines on how to handle a public tantrum with tact.

1. Stay calm. BabyCenter says that your initial action as a parent should be to stay calm and not to stress too much about the public tantrum. People around you actually understand that it is normal for a young child to throw fits in public places. You may ignore the behavior completely until your child stops or talk to your child in a calm and controlled manner. Showing distress might only encourage your toddler to continue his actions.

2. Take care of his needs. Many times, young children throw tantrums because they have a need that they have to take care of. Children may feel hungry, sleepy, bored or experiencing symptoms of sickness. Look into the possible underlying causes and satisfy their needs immediately. Your child will thank you for it and feel much better.

3. Show support. HandinHandParenting.org recommends that you show support and love when your child is throwing a public tantrum. There are times when toddlers feel insecure or uncomfortable especially in strange environments and public places so giving support through an embrace or giving them reassurance through kind words are the best approaches that will relieve their stress.

4. Spend one-on-one time. Children are always seeking attention especially from their loved ones and parents. Before you head out to a public area, spend some alone time with your child. Play and talk to each other so he can enjoy your company and feel more confident and secure when you transfer to a public place. A confident child will less likely throw public fits if you regularly give him attention.

Use these simple approaches to strengthen your relationship with your young one and save yourself from public humiliation. Punishing your child is strongly discouraged. Be firm and stern when necessary but primarily show love and support.